I still don’t want to be on my own as I am afraid that Dale will come over and I am scared of what he could do. I have already had two serious stalkers in the past and I do not want him to become my third.
I phoned my Nan a half eight as I knew that she would be back from dog walking by then, however she was not in. Grandad told me to call back at nine. Instead of me calling her, she rang me back at five past. I explained to her that I did not feel comfortable being in a house on my own, she then offered to come over and pick me up which I accepted. She told me that she would be here at quarter to and then we would go onto see my great auntie (a lady in her mid nineties who is blind yet too stubborn to move in with anyone or into a home). Quarter to came and went and I was getting nervy. I even wondered if she had meant quarter to eleven?! She finally arrived at just gone ten o’clock. We went and sat in at my great aunties for nearly two hours. She was sad to hear of my separation and was shocked to hear the reasoning behind it.
We soon left and went up to my Nan’s house where I remained for the afternoon. I had with me the list of places to change my address with, so I knuckled down and called all of them. My auntie arrived later on, who is currently going through a divorce herself, so we chatted about that for a while and what our husbands were trying to do to get their revenge (mostly accusations of adultery). Conversation then moved onto my leg and physiotherapy. She sat in and helped me (she works alongside the Yeovil physiotherapists) with my exercises for half an hour and then left again.
Mum picked me up at quarter to five and we had a quiet evening in. I went online, later in the evening, onto my Face book account (a social networking site) to find that Dale had left me a message saying “I don’t want to be your friend, you’re evil”. Strange that, seeing as how he had created an account and became my friend just to say that!
Dale seems to believe that he has evidence of me having an affair, simply being the Face book account. He could see that I had asked a lot of males to be my friends, what he doesn’t seem to realise however, was that in school I was in a class of thirty students and only seven of us were female. So obviously the majority of my friends were male. I had to drop all of my male friends because of my soon to be ex husband and his paranoid mind, I just figured it was time to catch up and beg forgiveness from my old school chums.